Greater St. Louis Bridge News

News from Greater St. Louis Unit 143

Editor:  Marie Sander, St. Louis MO   hatlady@prodigy.net


Hello, Is This Thing On?

The last article in the Advocate drew almost no response, which leaves me wondering. Do the players not care that the games are shrinking, or do they just have no ideas? Both are so unlikely that I am at a loss. I suspect option three, that we, as mere players, feel powerless to make a difference.

I attended the last board meeting, where a new liaison was formed between the board, (which concerns itself mostly with tournaments and awards) and the club managers. The hope and purpose of the group is to stimulate interest and increase attendance at both club games and tournaments. So be assured that those who are running things want to see some more people in the seats.

We players can be active in stimulating interest in the game. We may want to call someone not seen in a while and see if you can give him a ride or find her a partner. I have heard of churches increasing their membership by just having the current members bring a guest. While that won’t work for us, we can steer those who are interested in learning to Mary Hruby, who teaches bridge from ground zero on Tuesdays from 6-8 p.m. at Bridge Haven. If you know someone who knows duplicate but is still new, direct him to Donna Coker’s Thursday-morning novice game at Olivette. Both of these are listed on our web site, www.unit143.com.

If we want to attract younger players, the unit has to come up with more evening games. Perversely, many evening games closed because they are not supported. Would an evening novice game be an option? That way, working people could get their foot in the door.

Finally, in the cool gray light of dawn, we have to admit that many players quit because they were treated badly. People were rude to them. If you know someone like this, please call him or her and grovel. Promise it will never happen again. Directors will get out the tar and feathers for anyone daring to get ugly at their games as the cost of allowing it has been made pretty clear. Mostly, the membership has to speak up and protect those who may be new and uncertain.

There is a phenomenon called “service recovery,” in which studies show that messing up and fixing it score higher than not messing up at all. For example, if the hotel gives your family a single twin bed, then fixes it with the correct room, studies show that the service is perceived as even better than the service provided where there are no mistakes. We know tempers flare and voices are raised occasionally. Now we know we have to step in and fix it.

As always I welcome your ideas for attracting more players. Write me at Hatlady@prodigy.net  
Y’all play nice now,
     Marie